💌 Sep 18: premium deodorant balm, stonewalling in relationships, job opportunities

TODAY IS WEDNESDAY, SEP 18

WHAT TO EXPECT

• stories: stonewalling, corpcore is tiktok’s latest obsessions, Bezos bought the house
only to get sued
• listen to this: female founder world podcast
• in collaboration with: AKT
• job seekers: operations and visual manager, merchant hair, product development
manager
• extra stories
• quote: on reliability
• bon voyage: Huntington Beach, CA

LIFESTYLE: STONEWALLING IN A RELATIONSHIP, DO YOU DO IT?
Relationships are tough sh*t, seriously. Whether it’s romantic, familial, or work-related, maintaining relationships can prove to be very difficult. Stonewalling is a concept in romantic relationships that a lot of people don’t understand, and it’s occurs when an individual emotionally withdraws or shuts down during conflicts. If after an argument, silence, dismissive behavior, or physical distancing are occurrences you’ve noticed in you or your partner, then you’ve seen stonewalling first hand. The impact of this is harmful to both people in the relationship as it can lead to feelings of rejection, anxiety, and disconnection.

FASHION: CORPCORE IS TIKTOK’S LATEST OBSESSION
"Corpcore," reimagines traditional office wear with a modern, streetwear-inspired twist. This aesthetic blends corporate staples like pinstripe suits and collared shirts with casual elements, creating versatile outfits suitable for both work and social settings. The trend reflects a post-pandemic shift in work culture, where the lines between office and casual wear are increasingly blurred. Key elements of corpcore include tailored trousers, blazers, button-down shirts, and loafers, often paired with more relaxed pieces like T-shirts and sneakers. This trend allows for a more streamlined wardrobe that transitions easily from professional to casual settings, appealing to those seeking a balance between office attire and everyday style.

REAL ESTATE: JEFF BEZOS BOUGHT HIS HOUSE, NOW HE’S SUING
Jeff Bezos bought three properties on Miami's Indian Creek Island for a total of $237 million in 2023. The seller of the second property, Leo Kryss, is now suing real estate brokerage (Douglas Elliman) for $6 million, claiming they misled him about Bezos being the buyer. Kryss alleges he would have negotiated differently had he known Bezos was purchasing the property to combine it with his adjacent lot...yes, he owns the property next door! With the lawsuit, Kryss means to highlight how wealthier folk normally shield their identities to avoid inflated prices, and where the ethics is in doing so.

Jasmine Garnsworthy is the podcast host for Female Founder World. You’ll learn how to start and scale-up a business directly from real-world entrepreneurs. A ton of interviews, resources, and advice.

IN COLLABORATION WITH

When it comes to long lasting, natural protection, AKT is it. Tried, tested and approved by London's West End performers (and us), AKT is a premium deodorant balm that is truly born to perform. It’s designed with efficacy, strong environmental ethics, and premium fragrances at its forefront.

Operations & Visual Manager, ALO YOGA (Princeton, NJ): The Operations and Visual Manager is a critical member of the store leadership team accountable for bringing Alo’s operational and visual strategy to life in the store. This individual is passionate about inventory management, labor planning and scheduling, and visual execution – all with a lens on driving an efficient and effective store operation.

Merchant Hair, SEPHORA (San Francisco, CA): As a Merchant, you will be responsible for achieving financial and strategic goals of the assigned category and brands – including sales, productivity and gross margin. You will implement department objectives/ projects, brand and client strategies and visual presentations within your assigned brands and the product world.

Product Dev Manager, FASHION NOVA (Los Angeles, CA): The Manager, Product Development & Production - Denim, Non-Denim, Tops, and Bottoms is responsible for supporting the Product Development team with sample and purchase order organization. You will organize, count, and assess how many samples are in the Product Development queue, will schedule fit appointments with the vendors and models and will assist with the TOP coordination as needed.

🗣️ Do you talk to yourself?

👄 It’s cooling down which means more chances for your lips to be crusty, but fear not

🥱 If you’re looking for a comfy night’s sleep, an organic mattress may be the key

ON RELIABILITY: "You can carve out a very good career simply by being the most reliable person on the team. You would not think that always showing up on time, hitting every deadline, and responding quickly and professionally to all communication would be such a differentiator, but these traits are always in short supply." - JAMES CLEAR

Being reliable is not only a powerful trait to have at work but also in relationships and friendships. There are very few people who can truly be counted on and in return, gain an immense amount of trust.

HUNTINGTON BEACH, CA

EAT: Duke's is a casual Hawaiian-inspired seafood restaurant with oceanfront views. If you’re looking for a pick me up while in that ocean-town vibe, this is the place to be. For an upscale experience, look into Watertable. It’s got a New American cuisine, is located in the Hyatt Regency, and is known for its farm-to-table approach.

STAY: Paséa Hotel & Spa is a modern, upscale beachfront resort with ocean views and a rooftop bar. It features a Balinese-inspired spa, two pools, and a rooftop bar with ocean views. The Hyatt Regency Resort and Spa is another option; a family-friendly resort with direct beach access and multiple pools. It’s got a Spanish-style architecture with direct beach access via a pedestrian bridge.

DO: Huntington Beach Pier is an iconic 1,850-foot pier for fishing, sightseeing, and watching surfers. If being near the ocean and seeing a lively environment is your thing, this is your place. Another place along the same vibe is the Huntington State Beach. It’s a popular spot for sunbathing, swimming, and surfing, often called "surf city USA”.