💌 Aug 14: toxic dating rules, open roles, power of thoughts

TODAY IS WEDNESDAY, AUG 14

WHAT TO EXPECT

• stories: hushed hybrid, toxic dating rules, paying bills with credit cards
• listen to this: Seven Nation Army by DJ Fluke
• in collaboration with: Ilia Beauty
• job seekers: creator partner lead, brand partnerships coordinator, marketing coordinator
• extra stories
• quote: on power of thoughts
• bon voyage: Boston

WORK LIFE: “HUSHED HYBRID” MEANS WHAT FOR YOUR COMPANY?
"Hushed hybrid" is a new workplace term which essentially describes employees working from home more than company policy allows, with manager approval. On one hand, it can increase employee engagement and flexibility, considering they’re in a chosen comfortable location. However, it may also create perceptions of inequity and cultural issues within companies, especially smaller ones where personal connections are more important. Experts suggest that leaders should prioritize clarity in communicating rationales for in-person work requirements while still allowing for flexibility to maintain productivity and engagement.

LIFESTYLE: TOXIC DATING RULES
Dating rules often lack nuance and fail to account for the complexity of human relationships. It is best to take a more compassionate, understanding approach to dating and relationships. A few rules that make sense: healing can occur within relationships, effort is necessary, uncertainty is normal, and rigid attachment style compatibility theories are oversimplified. Also important is to be open-minded, patient, and true to yourselves in dating experiences, rather than adhering strictly to prescribed rules.

WEALTH: USING YOUR CC FOR BIG BILLS = POINTS + FEES
Using credit cards for large expenses like rent, tuition, and taxes to earn points has become quite popular as more payment options move online. But experts warn that the fees associated with these transactions can exceed the value of rewards earned, so not a win-win situation. There are exceptions of course, such as cards with sign-up bonuses or special perks that can offset the fees. Generally, a 2% fee is considered the break-even point for rewards, but many payment platforms charge higher fees. It’s definitely worth the time to carefully evaluate whether the benefits outweigh the costs, when thinking of paying large sums with your CC(s).

This song is a modern electronic twist on the original Seven Nation Army by The White Stripes. Jaki Nelson x DJ Fluke together make this song a must for working out or when you’re feeling upbeat.

IN COLLABORATION WITH

ILIA BEAUTY

With a mission to protect + revive your skin, ILIA believes in skin that looks like skin. It’s truly clean, skin-centric beauty. These minimalist and potent formulas/products will have your skin looking youthful so you can challenge the conventions of beauty.

Creator Partner Lead, PEARPOP (LA): You will be leading the Creator Partnerships team. This key role involves developing and executing creator campaigns for top-tier clients, leveraging our proprietary technology to connect brands with our extensive network of creators. This role combines leading a talented and growing team with individually managing several active campaigns.

Brand Partnerships Coordinator, AG1 (NY): This position requires a detail-oriented individual with exceptional communication and organizational skills. Reporting to the SVP, Brand & Commercial Partnerships, the ideal candidate will be a skilled communicator with the ability to collaborate effectively with cross-functional teams, vendors, sponsors, and stakeholders. Working in a growing team and in a high-growth organization, the successful candidate will bring forth strong organizational and time management skills, with the ability to prioritize tasks, manage multiple projects simultaneously, and meet deadlines in a fast-paced environment.

Marketing Coordinator, TRAVEL + LEISURE (OR): You will serve as a positive and professional brand ambassador for Wyndham Destinations, partner with the resort staff to receive arrival sheets of guests checking in, screen and qualify potential customers based on company guidelins, and make sales-tour reservations and collect required deposits

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ON POWER OF THOUGHTS: “The only difference between you and who you want to be is the stories you tell yourself.” - Dr. Joe Dispenza

Our thoughts can be highly limiting to our growth and overall wellbeing. Part of manifestation as well is telling yourself stories where you have already made it and become who you want to be. Perhaps it all starts by telling yourself stories…

BOSTON, MA

EAT: Seafood lover? Try the Neptune Oyster, an acclaimed restaurant in the North End. It’s known for its fresh oysters, lobster rolls, and other New England coastal cuisine. Toro on the other end is a lively tapas bar South End serving up creative Spanish-inspired small plates and an extensive selection of sherry and cocktails.

STAY: For a luxury hotel you’ll definitely want to look into the Four Seasons Hotel Boston. It’s located in the heart of the Back Bay neighborhood, with stunning views of the Boston Public Garden. If a boutique hotel is more your vibe, then go with The Verb Hotel, a retro-chic hotel with a lively vibe.

DO: Take a self guided 2.5 mile walk on the Freedom Trail that connects 16 historical sites, including the Boston Common, Massachusetts State House, and Bunker Hill. You can also visit the Museum of Fine Arts. It’s one of the largest art museums in the world, with an impressive collection spanning 5,000 years of culture, from ancient Egyptian artifacts to contemporary American art.